Now a Mumbaikar

Life is much like a train that takes you through many Cities.

It has taken me from Coimbatore to Madurai to Chennai to Baton Rouge to Madison to Chicago to Bangalore and now in Mumbai.

Coimbatore is very special to me. The monsoon drizzle in June/July, then the Puja and Diwali rains, the chill in December,  Pongal time visit to a village temple from where my father came from and the summer holidays – visiting the Annual Exhibition – the highlight of the city once. Lot of sweet simple memories – all intertwined among school friends, street friends, relatives and festivals.

Madurai was hot. Super hot. Got Jaundice and Chicken pox. This city lives and breathes Tamil. I still remember one Sugarcane vendor’s rhyming statement when he had to go attend nature’s call after handing over the juice ( thankfully ) “Aatharathai adaku mudiyum aana mootharathai adaku mudiyuma” [ You can control Anger – aatharam, but you cannot control nature’s call – mootharam ]. All the streets, places had beautiful names – Anupaanadi, Thallakulam – and each has a story which the Tamil Miss will tell. Then the school I attended where except me all were somehow related to each other – and at times during marriage season half the class will be gone to attend a wedding!

Chennai was magical. The beach, the crowd, the super hot summers and movies. I tasted freedom. Had my own pocket money to spend between movies, food or books. Life in CEG was even more awesome. Techofes, Waves, Student Union Elections, running a stall during Techofes, the “study” tours, the labs, late night chat parties, editing a magazine, horrible hostel food, the cricket matches in TV room with some 200 people crammed into a 20×20 room – that too in that chennai summer – each day was new and un-predicatable. Then the second phase of Chennai life where I worked in TCS – had lot of money now – could go places where I could never go before – Residency buffet or Ponnuswamy or Anjappar and could buy any book or CD when I wanted. I once blew a months salary on a VCD system and watched umpteen movies week after week from a VCD rental shop in Velacherry who did door delivery. But got bored quickly with this life.

Was once again broke as a student in Baton Rouge, Louisiana where I went for my Masters. It was Super hot in summer when I landed. I thought USA was a cold place. This was year 2000 – did not know of Google or a website to go check for Weather. And it was a place with warm hearts and down to earth people and had a unique culture  Cajun culture. Learnt to cook  and got addicted to American Football, Baseball and Basketball. It was a lazy laid back place with a huge river – Mississippi – and God Awesome hurricanes.

Then shifted from Hottest place in USA to the Coldest place – Madison – another college town. And then to Chicago – a fairy tale place with museums and sky scrapers and parks and lakes and plays and all kinds of restaurants from around the world – so much to do – cycling,trekking – or just walking near the lakes late nights. If I ever go back to live in USA, here is where I will drop my anchor.

Then Bangalore. I actually feel sorry for this nice little city. In the 6 years that I was there, could see the city turn into a concrete jungle. Do not know how the old timers feel. But this city feels young and vibrant.  Here is where the New India ( India 2.0 ) is being forged. Barcamps, Devcamps, cycle commuters, car poolers, Tree planting drives, New Age Politicians, Wasteland turned into a meeting cum work place cum garage sale place, Eco Conservationists…its a long list of new age thinkers and doers. Then the MG Road, Brigade Road, Church Street, Cubbon Park and now Metro – loved to just hang out.  335E Volvo – thanks to traffic will take 1 hour to reach my office – a distance of 8 kms – and I crunched book after book – Leo Tolstoy, Paulo Coelho, Ayn Rand, Robert Pirsig – thanks to Justbooks – a library startup from Bangalore. And Startups – cart loads of them.

Finally since last year – moored in Mumbai. Started on the wrong foot – bike got towed, got hit with a fine next day for jumping signal. Discovered public transport, most are super hard working people, folks who respect and value money, auto drivers who return 1 Rupee, parks everywhere, dirty roads and pan spits everywhere, and Rains that keep going on and on and all festivals celebrated with lot of food, music and dance. This is one crazy city. Folks here do 2 3 jobs and are always looking for new opportunities and to make things work. 200 sqft shops where some 10 people work in this space thanks to the concept of a “mezzanine floor” – like the new office we are to move shortly ( will post photos next week after we move ). Its amazing how Mumbai uses space.

Yet to fully discover Mumbai. It has so many layers which I keep peeling as I continue my journey here. But the thing I have come to appreciate the most are Drinkable Tap Water ( felt guilty drinking bisleri water in Bangalore ), zero power cuts and a Public Transport that is so reliable.

Where next? No idea – I live in the present 🙂

Choice : Easy or Hard

I am noticing this dichotomy everywhere. From life to love to design to coding.

It is easy to eat junk food. But hard to eat healthy stuff.

It is easy to watch TV. But hard to read a book.

It is easy to veg out in the couch. But hard to get out and run.

It is easy to hate someone we despise. But hard to love the same person.

It is easy to create something with lot of code. But hard to create the same functionality with minimal code.

It is easy to get stressed out and feel down. But hard to keep cool and spirits high.

Guess what? – in all cases – the hard part is the most rewarding.

Yet – we all choose the easy part. Again and Again and Again. Even though we know that taking the hard part will be more rewarding and beautiful.

I think this is a test being conducted – and if we have to pass in this we have to keep taking the hard path at every fork.

Eat Healthy.
Read Books.
Run.
Love everyone.
Write beautiful code.
Stay cool & Keep Spirits high.

& Drink coffee / red wine 🙂

ps : some vices are Ok I guess. We need not aim for a 100. An 80 will do!

Spiritual but not Religious

You never know when something deep inside you gets triggered.

Could be a near miss with death, losing a close friend/family – or a chance meeting with a stranger.

4 years back – I had a chance meeting with a retired Bank Manager in Bangalore. He suggested I read Conversations with God.

I then read all of Paulo Coelho’s works – my favourite Brazilian author. Then Steve Jobs died – and read all about him and the spiritual side of him.

I have been trying to figure out Who I am and Why I am here – and I am nowhere close to the truth.

I am confused and clearer at the same time – just like light – which is both a wave and a particle at the same time.

I am not an Atheist

I am clear on one thing. I do believe in God as some mysterious supreme power or light or energy. Earth and Humans are not here by chance. I did briefly stray into being an atheist when my father passed away. Did shake me up and for sometime went around not being bothered about God or Religion or any customs.

I dont practice any Religion

Religion does not make any sense – so I dont pray to any God form anymore. However I like the philosophy that is present in all Religions. I like the meanings hidden in Bible and Hinduism. Love the sufi songs and Quawwali. Yet to read Quran. I don’t believe in the shortcuts in the form of Sanskrit Verses and rituals present in Hinduism to attain Enlightenment.

I am not an Apatheist Either

Though I don’t follow any religion – I am not an Apatheist – one who does not care if God Exists or Not. I believe in God, but not in Religion.

What am I to be classified?

If someone asks me – are you an atheist, or an apatheist, or are you a Hindu/Christian/Muslim?

My answer is none of the above.

It is quite simple. I am in a journey to discover by my self what this is all about. More like my running – I don’t run with any group – I do my own research and discover new techniques and find what works and doesn’t work through trial and error.

I am unravelling the mystery one day at a time – through books, through songs, through movies – keeping my eyes and ears open for any interesting tid bit that helps forming my mental model about God, Life & Death and Love.

Buddha figured it out. Dalai Lama figured it out. Many Saadhus have figured it out.

I know I am not going to run in the Olympics – but I can still run a full marathon ( 42 kms ) some day. Working towards it one run at a time.

Likewise – I am not sure if I will get the enlightenment in this lifetime’s journey. Unlike the sequential model we are so used to – in the next lifetime I will be born in the past like in 10th Century BC or in the future like in 30th Century AD- I might be a wiser man than what I am now and I am sure I will be continuing this journey.

Signing off as someone who is Spiritual but not Religious.

Bong Secrets Revealed!

Alright here it goes – the best kept bong secrets are all revealed.

All these from the observation I made during a Bong wedding I attended in February.

Fish is a vegetarian dish

This is an open secret – but I will not get full marks if I do not list it here. I am yet to figure out this mystery.

Wedding doesn’t get over on the same day

On the night of the wedding day, the boy and girl are kept awake by the 2 sides. There is a mythology where Lakhinder of the Behula Lakhinder legend has to stay awake on their wedding night or he dies. This turned out to be lot of fun – and we all became deep and spiritual ( after 3 am ).

Groom’s Mom should not attend wedding

If this comes up in any of the Tamil TV Serials – all the heads watching the TVs will just explode in unison. I don’t know the reason behind this tradition.

Bongs hate Rosogolla

I am not kidding. Try giving Rosogolloas to them and they will all go – ohh.. eeh.. and if they are pushed to eat and they realise there is no way out – they will take the rasogolla and squeeze all the syrup out of it before putting it in their mouth. Perhaps the bongs living outside Kolkata might not exhibit this behaviour. The only ones who were stuffing ourselves with Rosogollas where the Tams.

Some more enlightenment

Mark my words – My in-law race will take over this world for sure  – and that time most of the words that you know will be replaced. Here is preparing you for the future.

Punjaabi – Its the Kurta as you all know it
Puchhka – Paani Puri
Loochi –  Poori
Shingaada – Samosa

Jokes Apart – I am in total admiration of Bengalis.

They are very deep and spiritual. Sri Ramakrishna Paramahamsa, Swami Vivekananda, Paramhansa Yogananda ( Autobiography of a Yogi – very interesting book – the only book Steve Jobs had in his iPad and he read it once every year) – all are Bengalis.

Bengalis are forward thinking in lot of ways. Birthplace of Indian Freedom movement, Music, Art and Literature, Movies and now there are many Rock Bands. Their songs ( once translated to me of course ) are deep and spiritual in many ways.

They are very brave when it comes to naming their kids – the wife’s cousin kids names are based on Currencies for instance ( Rouble, Ringgit and Lira )

Bengalis never give up a fight for whats right – and are an impractical but passionate lot.

Someday I will write a book on just Bengalis – from a 3/4 Tam + 1/4 Kannadiga’s view point.