Book Review – The Pillars of the Earth

This is the first Ken Follet book I have ever read. Was a fantastic journey.

If you can ignore the raw scenes – the rape and brutal murders of the medieval times – this book will both entertain and give an idea how a Cathedral could have got built.

It is not easy. Building anything great which can stand the test of time and wars. The Great Cathedrals in Europe have withstood all these and more. And they were built in a time without Earth Movers or Machines – but with bare hands.

The story is nicely woven – there are many heroes and villains – and how they all fight it out, the setbacks, the cunning plots – and finally a Cathedral gets built – after it gets burnt down twice and collapses because of a wrong architecture.

I cannot stop appreciating the parallel in my life. It has taken 13 years on one goal – ADDA. It will take another couple of decades or more to make ADDA a product to be used by all Apartment Communities across the world.

Yes had my share of Heroes and Villains so far. More are yet to come – but they will all help in the end goal I have in mind – just like Friar Phillip – who will fight it all out and finally the Cathedral gets erected. What a ride!

Bangalore – Shillong Road Trip – Day 5

Previous : Day 4 – Asansol to Siliguri

It was just 5AM and the day had already broken. Welcome to North East it said. At the distance we could see the mighty Himalayas.

The cold / fever starting feeling had left me. Perhaps it was fatigue and a good night’s rest helped.

Morning again it became a 7:30 AM start. Just couldn’t push the team to even a 6:30 AM start. The host messaged us that Sunday everything is locked down in Shillong and we have to be in quarantine till the tests come out.

We stopped at a grocery before leaving Siliguri and stocked up on the usual junk food – bread, jam, noodles etc.

We left Siliguri and immediately entered a beautiful green stretch – a road we went on in Oct 2018 – when we went to Sikkim. We stopped to stare at Teesta. My earlier memory of it was Green water, but now it was all brown.

There was no stopping at Assam Border and we rolled into Assam. First time ever – for all of us – to come this far into North East of India.

It was all plains till we reached Guwhati. Stretch was quite boring. We listened to interview of Vivek. One of my favourite comedians who had passed away.

While passing Guwahati I called Miran from our team – was just checking on him – he asked for our co-ordinates and he was just 5 minutes away. We decided to meet. He greeted us with a traditional Assamese welcome.

After saying bye to Miran, we started towards Shillong, and missed a turn. While taking an U-turn, noticed the name of the Dhaba at the exact spot was called U-turn Dhaba.

We passed the Meghalaya border and spotted Police stopping all vehicles and directing to the testing centre.



We spent close to 1.5 hours – registration, payment, sample collection, waiting for the receipt – and finally we were off the testing centre.

It took another hour to reach our final destination. It was around 11:30ish I think – the longest road trip we had ever taken in the beautiful country of ours.

Muuwah to my India.

Bangalore – Shillong Road Trip – Day 4

Previous – Day 3 – Bhubaneshwar to Asansol

We left Asansol and pointed Google to Siliguri. Did not have any breakfast, thought will have it on the way some where – but there were none. I was not expecting an Udupi – but still there was not a single decent one. We had a few Mishti and I ate it up. Felt an odd feeling – too much sugar on empty stomach.

We entered Jharkand, and then Bihar. Somewhere before crossing Ganges we stopped at a restaurant and packed Roti and Paneer Sabzi. The drive was not fun. It was a single lane, and the lorries looked dangerous and were driven very fast. The lorries down south do not go this fast.

On the bridge had a close call where one of these fast lorries was overtaking dangerously and was approaching quite fast into our side – and had to hit a hard brake to stop.

We reached Siliguri around evening – and found a place to stay in Loft hotel. Somewhere while entering Siliguri I was bragging – Coco did not get caught all these days and lo and behold – the owner was in the Reception and spotted Coco.

San had to convince them and said if anything breaks we will pay for it. They let it pass. The Loft hotel was neat. One of the better ones in Siliguri.

I was feeling that odd feeling I get before start of a fever. Could be the 4 days of travel, I was not sure. So ordered Hot and Sour Chicken Soup – my goto anytime I get on the onset of a cold / fever, P ordered Noodles as usual – and we had it in the room.

Next : Day 5 Siliguri to Shillong

Bangalore – Shillong Road Trip – Day 3

Previous : Bangalore – Shillong Road Trip Day 2

We left Bhubaneshwar around 7:30 AM. It takes time for us to get ready – in a way it is good, because I get time to do Shambhavi – it keeps me alert throughout the day.

I was excited crossing Mahanadhi – during my college days, once the train has left Bhubaneshwar I will take the suitcase and go stand at the train door. Cuttack was some 30 minutes from Bhubaneshwar.

It was an anti climax. I could only see little bit of water – cars do not give great view for the river. Trains are the best. I got reminded of the last meeting with my father – on the train platform. Reminded of the last journey with him – I was entering my 3rd year. He was doing his Dad duty – do not stop after graduating. Get an MBA degree – he said. I was quietly nodding. Doing my duty as my son. Was reminiscing it with San.

We crossed Cuttack and got into a boring stretch. It was almost touching 39 degrees, and there were lot of diversions. We will be driving on the wrong side of the road at times.

Then we crossed into West Bengal. Just a small board which said welcome to West Bengal. There were lot of green paddy fields and we stopped at one of them, drank it all in and had the food we packed from the hotel – Aaloo Paratha and Veg Sandwich. It was really good.

We left NH16 and got into single roads. Lot of oncoming traffic but roads were quite good. Went through couple of foresty areas and villages. Reached Durgapur around 6ish, and decided to drive further and stay at Asansol – apparently the 2nd largest city in West Bengal.

Checked into Asansol International. San and I stepped out to get Mishti – Kheer Kodombo is my all time favourite, and an Egg roll for myself, Chicken Noodles for Puttu and Mutton Biryani for San. And Mountain Dew – Prithvi was on top of the world.

We switched off the light and were trying to sleep, and suddenly a light flashed near the Bathroom. Prithvi gave a shriek. I went to examine and it was all dark. I thought perhaps the bathroom switch had a loose connection.

Then when I was turning back saw the light turn on – it was from the closet. Apparently coco was running around and had triggered the light. I closed the closet room and we all had a laugh.

Next : Day 4 Asansol to Siliguri

Bangalore – Shillong Road Trip – Day 2

Previous : Day 1 – Bangalore to Rajahmundry

I woke up and did Shambhavi as we all got ready. By 7:30 AM we were out.

Right opposite the place where we stayed there was a coffee shop. Felt like having coffee , but did not express my intention – we had decided to stay away from these impulses. Later after we left Rajahmundry San said – wish we got coffee near the place we stayed.

I told Prithvi – see – if I was communicative enough – Mummy would also said, yeah I also feel like having – and we could have had nice hot coffee.

Plan was to have the bread and jam we had packed – on the way. San was driving – it was her pre-standup time. I found a descent restaurant. We decided to stop there.

This place was called the One Food court. It is part of a resort but on the highway.We parcelled Masala Dosa and Guntur Idly for lunch. Standing in the parking lot we finished up bread.

San continued her standup, while I drove. We entered Vishakhpatnam around lunch time, and got caught in traffic. After crossing Vizag, filled the tank – FT3. The petrol here was Rs.94 per litre.

We saw some interesting statues on the way.

P gave his finger to Coco to bite, and she slept off biting his fingers.

After leaving Vishakapatnam we were looking for a shade to have our lunch. I spotted a small dirt road going on the side, and went in. There was a nice shade. We setup shop and had our packed lunch.

We entered Orissa around evening. There was no checkpoint nor checking for RT PCR test. We could have skipped the test.

I was however excited about seeing Chilika lake close. We took a small detour to a viewing spot – they had set it up nicely so we could kind of walk into the lake. There were a few visitors like us – but the place looked deserted. In pre-covid times this would have been a busy spot.

At the parking lot

We had to fill the tank again – FT4. The price was around Rs. 92 I think. And entered Bhubaneshwar around night 7:30 PM. Last I had come to Bhubaneshwar around 1992 I think – that’s like 30 years ago.

We had booked in Hotel Pushpak – in the heart of the city. It was a good place. We ordered Pasta for Prithvi and an Egg Roll for us – it was fantastic.

Cocoa in her traveling earth suit!

Next : Day 3 – Bhubaneshwar to Asansol

Bangalore – Shillong Road Trip – Day 1

Previous : The Preparation

The trip officially started from Indira Nagar, near to Lab Genius around 7:30 AM.

We crossed KR Puram bridge and took the old Madras road. Pretty soon we crossed the point where we had been once to go to a temple – Vakkaleri Markendeshwar Temple – little off Kolar.

Officially we have entered – the never been on road this part onwards – zone. We have made umpteen trips to Coimbatore and Chennai – it will always be via Hosur.

San took over, as she said she will attend her standups – which were from 10:30 AM onwards. I noticed she was driving in an unusual manner.  I thought perhaps she had not had her breakfast or perhaps was a bit sleepy. Later she said she was trying to conserve petrol. Thank God she didn’t do that after that.

Over the years being on the passenger side, have developed a knack to notice when San is driving in her usual rhythm. One bad habit of her is she will not give the controls, even when she is tired. So this time I introduced the protocol – every 2 hours let us keep swapping. Anyway we did not strictly follow it.

We stopped around 9:30 AM to have breakfast. Idly, Sambhaar and Chutney. Then resumed journey. I started driving as San’s standups were on.

We were somewhere near Tirupati – when her 2nd standup was in progress. The participants were from Romania, Dubai, Bangalore and on a highway near Tirupati. The outside temperature was close to 38 degrees. We spotted a fork – right would have taken to Vellore and Chennai, and left towards Vijayawada. I joked, let us change the plan. No one bothered answering. I took the left.

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The roads were fine till now. We crossed Nellore and found the place to be quite posh. Lot of highway restaurants, all posh ones – not like the A2Bs – with a basketball court and a transparent seating area etc. – post covid have to come this side to check these places.

Did a full tank now. FT-1. It was Rs.96 per litre.

There was some election and police were stopping cars and checking. We hurriedly put on our masks, but no one stopped us.

We started searching for a good shade on the highway. Found lot of lorries parked to the left, and found one. Amma had packed lunch – we gobbled it gladly.

Cocoa went under the seat. I think the highway noise of the vehicles zooming past us was getting on her nerves. Took some effort to coax her back into her bag.

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Then we got some fantastic 3 laners, cement topped. Also the bridges in Andhra I noticed had a nice slow gradient. Never have I seen such gentle sloped bridges. Good for the lorries carrying tons of goods – they can climb them without much reduction on their speed.

Then it started raining. It was a heavy downpour. Exactly around this time San got a call from one of her team mates. She was resigning.

I was focussing on following an Innova which was driving at a decent speed and over hearing San’s side of the discussion.

When we started I had put Vijayawada as destination. Google said 7:30 PM as ETA. However the ETA improved to 5:30 PM . Google uses 80 KMPH speed limit, so I think we made good time. Also we ensured our stops were very short. So we changed the destination to Rajahmundry.

The rain stopped and we entered Vijayawada. We crossed Krishna river. Remembered my college days when I used to take Coramendal express – it was the fastest of all trains to Kolkata. It will start from Chennai and the very next stop will be Vijayawada. It was a nostalgic feeling crossing Krishna river.

We filled the tank FT2 and San took over. We crossed Godavari and reached a hotel we had booked when we were crossing Vijayawada.

The place did not look sanitised enough. First San went in and sprayed all the door knobs and usual places we might touch. Then she laid out the bedsheet and towels on the pillow.

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Then we went down and smuggled cocoa in along with our suitcases – so they will not suspect.

It got cold with the AC, and we had one measly blanket ( we had packed away whatever the hotel had given ). Night I switched off the AC  and it got quite stuffy. Had a fitful sleep. For tomorrow we should at least use the blanket the hotel provides.

Next : Day2 – Rajahmundry to Bhubaneshwar

Bangalore Shillong Road Trip – The Preparation

Long long ago – pre Covid times I had read The 4 Hour Work week by Tim Ferris.

Tim Ferris is a hacker with a Brilliant mind. By hacker – not the geeky-wearing-a-hood-eating-pizza and hacking bank accounts. No a hacker who finds out creative ways to maximise – without breaking the law or cheating others.

One of the tips he gave was on travel and exploring new cities / places. To travel typically we will plan a 4 day vacation – a 3 night/4 day kind of adventure – which leaves you exhausted at the end and totally unsatisfied.

4 days is insufficient for exploring any place. It took 3+ years living in Mumbai and still we don’t know much about Mumbai.

Tim Ferris says – pack your bags, and go live in a place for 6 months. Cook your own food, do not eat in restaurants, wash your own clothes, buy and live like a local. Then you have truly experienced the place – and that too without spending a bomb and living a good fullfilling life.

Every year – dutifully – I will plan. This year, this summer – when kid is not in school, let us go live in some exotic place – Goa was the one that always came to mind.

But April is our peak selling month – new Financial year. Always there will be some new initiative or the other and we had to be in the office to rally the team.

And 2020 Covid happened. We did not date to step out of our home. When things started stabilising we squeezed in a trip to Mahabalipuram – on Diwali day.  I assumed who will come on Diwali to a resort – but the place was fully booked up. Luckily we did not catch covid.

But slowly the travel adventure bug started becoming bigger and bigger.

Around Feb 2021 we decided to move the office to a Co-Working space. We officially announced Work From Anywhere within the team.

Around March 2021, the long hidden desire of travel got rekindled. The 80kms trips around Bangalore – of course on an Adventure bike – weren’t really satiating the heart. It was just fuelling the heart for more.

I started looking into Airbnb for long term stays.I chose pet friendly options. That typically narrowed down to just a few places.

Goa was first in my list. It will be on anyone’s list. Ask someone to think of an exotic vacation – Goa will definitely popup.

I even narrowed to a pet friendly 2BHK at a walkable distance from a beach. There was internet. But the lift wasn’t working. It was around 40k a month. But somehow I didn’t feel good about this. But come summer, tourists will come and what if cases start shooting up – so dropped the idea of Goa.

Then I switched to Mangalore. The choices were not that many, but did find a place. Mangalore is not that touristy a place – and internet, electricity should be available as any Tier 2 city. Told San – I am considering Mangalore, she told in her daily standup – and everyone said Mangalore is a very bad idea. Bangalore is far better for the climate. We were to go in April/May and get back before school season starts. So Mangalore was dropped.

Then I switched to Coorg. Airbnb places were quite expensive, but I was not sure about the internet connectivity. We had made Video to be on in all the meetings as one non-negotiable item.

I did not want to leave the shores of Karnataka basically – don’t know when the borders might get closed and I did not enjoy taking RT-PCR tests.

Finally I dropped the idea and started focusing on my morning runs. Perhaps this year – I will complete a marathon 🙂

And then out of nowhere San says – lets go to Shillong. Apparently she was chatting with Dipankar – a friend who we used to work with on UI collaterals and he said internet and electricity is fine in Shillong.

I was confused. Now Shillong is a mega adventure – I was thinking more of a days journey max – so Sufi can come with us. Now Sufi has to be put in a boarding place. I checked out Google maps and it said 60 Hours from Bangalore. This is plain mental. Will take 5 days of 12 Hours driving each day.

I dilly dallied. Sometimes the idea excited, sometimes nagging questions took over. But after a week I said to San – let’s do it – I cannot say no to such an adventure.

Charu said – you guys are crazy. Thank you very much 🙂

I called my friend Lambert – a well connected guy – also the one who gave me a contact of a broker in Mumbai – who helped me get a 1BHK  way back in 2011. Lambert connected me to his friend – and lo and behold found a place. A steep 60k a month but with internet, and a kitchen and power backup in Shillong. Sent 5k as an advance – booked for April 20th. The earliest the house will become available.

It was March and we started the preparations. Amma Charu were to come by flight. The 5 day road trip will not be possible for Amma. I considered changing the middle row of our car to captain seats – but dropped the idea. After any half day trip Amma will be recuperating for a few days – her room will smell of Volini or the Ayurvedic oil. She does not complain as she thinks we will not take her on any trips – but I know that she does suffer with back pain after these long drives. Charu too was hesitant. She was not ready to lose 5 days – one way – as her exam preparations will go for a toss.

We decided they will fly to Guwahati. From there it is 3 hours to Shillong – we can go pick them up. Booked for Apr 26th. Charu was having her Shambhi initiation by Sadhguru on 25th so she could not start before that – she can do the initiation at peace without any disturbance.

We decided to leave Sufi in a boarding place – checked and blocked the place. Cocoa was to travel with us.

Next we serviced the car. I wanted them to change the engine oil – told them we are going on a 6000+ km road trip ( to and fro ) – but the technician said not needed. You come back in July and do it – when it is due. Anyway once I reach Shillong will check the colour of the engine oil and decide.

Next we serviced San’s bike. Oh – and she didn’t have an original license. In 2016 or was it 17. She had gone to Mumbai on a day trip and was mugged while returning on an Auto from Andheri to the Airport Terminal – in the dark stretch in front of the International terminal ( domestic is well lit ). She lost her laptop bag and handbag with her purse and the license. All she had was her phone, charging cable connected to a power bank.

All she has now for a license is an FIR – in Marathi btw and an old  copy of the driving license which was from Tamil Nadu. Getting the original, sitting in Bangalore is not possible. Also this license does not show in MParivahan – this license was obtained in the prehistoric times.

I was always uneasy about her driving around without an original license.

So quickly planned to get an LLR along with Charu – who was going to get hers. She got it on Saturday, April 3rd.

Rewind 2 days back – On April 1 – around lunch time went to get the Covid Vaccination – as it was open for all born before 31-Dec-1976.

April 2 was bad for me – had a few server issues, bill generation issues, and by evening had a searing headache, body ache and slight fever. I did not feel like watching a screen having worked the entire day.

During times of fever I get seriously depressed. Everything starts looking bleak. My mind starts taking the forks which leads to doomsday – on all fronts. Work, life, career – name anything.

I was really having second thoughts now – if we will make this trip. It is far, too much uncertainty.

Anyway – on 3rd I woke up fresh and the world was perfectly alright once again! Not to mention San got her LLR. Trip was on.

We had set the travel date as 14th April – Wednesday – Tamil New Years day. We should be in Shillong by Sunday night. Stay elsewhere for 2 nights, and 20th checkin to the month long home.

5 days on the road means we cannot wash. So need minimum 5 fresh underwear. Check.

Our car has only one USB port to charge. So I ordered a Cigarette lighter point splitter from Amazon – because currently it is taken up by the dash cam [ btw – recommend it as per Team BHP geniuses. Might come to help some day when you are on the right and this will help prove ].

We already had a cigarette lighter to 2 USB splitter from our old Honda city. This will take care of the charging needs.

San ordered more masks from Amazon. It came couple of days before the trip start day, but Prithvi in his enthusiasm while cutting open the package, cut into the masks. We had to order again, and they arrived just on time.

Then ordered a car seat’s backside organiser. To carry Water bottle, tissue, a fold down tray. Idea was good. So Prithvi can keep his iPad and watch movies. Again ordered from Amazon.

From the previous trip to Coimbatore we got a magnetic sun shade protector for all windows. That will help conserve some fuel and also the hot summer sun will not roast us alive.

BRV does not have a arm rest between the passenger and driver. We felt the need for it in long drives. I wonder how they charge more than a million but cannot find the money to put an arm rest. The high end ones come with an armrest. We never felt the need in Honda city which was a stick shift, because the left hand will be on the gear most of the time, but on this one – being a CVT the left hand has no where to rest and keeps dangling giving an odd sensation at the end of a long drive.

I thought of going to JC road but did not find time. So ordered online, and a make shift came one – apparently compatible with BRV it said – came the day before we were to start.

Start Day minus 2 ( Monday )

In  Maharashtra the covid cases had started increasing – just like last year. Soon KA will follow suit and then the borders will start closing between states.

I was getting little apprehensive – what will happen if mid-way of the journey one of the states will decide – enough – no more out station folks unless you have an e-pass.

Orissa has now said that by all entry points – air,road or water – a negative RT-PCR Test will be mandated. Meghalaya has also announced that a negative RT PCR is needed to enter.However this test for Meghalaya will not be valid by the time we reach. Have to undergo test + quarantine at Shillong.The other states we will pass through – Andhra,West Bengal and Assam have not announced anything.

Around 3PM we go to Indiranagar Lab Genius and give sample for an RT PCR Test.

At Lab Genius, before us there was a couple and the gentleman had teary eyes and was coughing. We were uneasy. San went right after him to the collection room. Will our trip be a non starter? I put away such thoughts.

The results will be ready by Wednesday evening – it will be too late. We wanted to start on Wednesday morning. Luckily LabGenius sends an email with the result. We will have to take a chance and start, and if one of us in the report comes positive we will turn back.

Start Day minus 1 ( Tuesday )

San and I made a long checklist, and the day before the trip went about picking them.

Wet Cat food, Tofu litter, Snacks for Sufi – were purchased from the spanking new Bangalore Pet Hospital – and dropped Sufi with Abira aunty – Rs.500 a day.

Then we got Murrukku from Pulla Reddy, for the friends in Shillong. Only Murruku can last a week or more. In MK Retail we picked a few munchies for the way – and lots and lots of Tetra Pak juices. We felt guilty a bit, but this was once in a blue moon purchase – and was practical. We open a full juice bottle we can neither finish or refrigerate. Also I got a few Nescafe tetra paks – daily late afternoon I get a caffeine boost – will need it. We are not going to stop in any road side tea shop.Then a few brittania cakes which I typically avoid. Healthy eating will be put on hold for this trip.

The night before, arround 6 we went to CV Raman Nagar to pick Mishki. She was in a boarding place for a month – her parents were coming back from Kolkata tonight. Mishki went crazy seeing San. She panted so much. We stopped the car and gave here some water, but still Mishki was so excited and kept panting the entire way to home.

I go out to fill air and fill up the tank. It is Rs.96 per liter. The car can take around 30 liters. On the high way it will give around 11 kmpl – we typically do 100 to 120+.  When we drive at 80 it gives a decent 16 kmpl. I dread to think of the petrol bill.

Then around night 9 we load up the car. Also I disconnect battery from the bikes. The batteries won’t be fully drained hopefully by the time we get back.

Around 10ish get an email from Labgenius – all 3 are negative. Phoo. We decide to start from home around 7, go to Indiranagar, pick the report and head towards Shillong.

Finally Start Day! 

Surprisingly I slept well. Typically before any long drive I will have a fit full sleep because of the excitement. But all the exertions of the previous day had tired me out.

Woke up fresh. Did Shambhavi. Drank coffee.

And we start.

Next : Day 1